You Can Win

Everyone likes to win...

Is winning an easy task?

This question ponders over many a times in my mind...
When we ask this to a successful person..
He says..
One needs to be focused and determined to reach the goal.. and he has to work towards it.. there are not shortcuts to victory!!!

I do agree..

Shortcuts may take you places.. that too in a short time.. no doubt about it.. but these shortcuts cannot keep a person to the top for a longer time.. as there is always a downfall waiting with open arms..

We all think of winning.. in every aspect of life..
But is it possible to win always?
We all have faced failures in life..
It could be in exams, love, friendship, work, sports, marriage...
We try to cope up with all these... and we overcome the failures with the determination to do so..

If we keep this determination beforehand itself... and work towards everything in life, giving our 100% or rather more than that.. Won't we succeed ..?
And even if we don't at least we will have a satisfaction that we tried our best..

Before taking up any task if we start thinking negative that we won't be able to do this or that.. it is utmost certain that we will definitely face FAILURE.. We need to have a positive approach towards life. If we limit ourselves we will never know what powers we hold within..
Here I would like to put up some lines I read somewhere...

You have powers you never dreamt of.
You can do things you never thought you could do.
There are no limitations in what you can do
Except the limitations of your own mind.

So set your minds free because nothing is impossible.. and even the word impossible says I m possible.. go ahead set goals, work towards them and I am sure...

You Can Win!!!!

Questions Of Life!!

How many steps will it take to walk a mile?
How many seconds will it take to wait a while?
How many battles do we need for us to win?
How many Gods do we need to forgive our sins?

How many times must a man betray his faith?
How many times can a man control his hate?
When do we say that justice isn't fair??
How can we endure the burden that we bear?

Where is the youth who will dare?
Where can we find the people who really care?
Where can we find the road to success?
Is it in the north, south, east, or west?

Where can I find true love?
That God had gave from above?
How many struggles do we need to make it through?
When do we say that a statement is false or true?

How can I forgive others?
When they killed my peers?
Can you give help to those people in need?
After they have dropped you and you bleed?

Who are the people you can trust?
In this world, to fight is a must.
The world will continue to evolve,
Until those questions have been solved.

Struggle And We !!!

Struggle is an important part of one's life.
Everyone has to go through the hard times in life.
We do get support from our near and dear ones..
But the truth is: What we go through is best understood by our own self.

It is difficult to explain how does it feel in those hard times..
We have seen people who are not able to cope up with the struggle and give away their entire lives.
There are also people who take their hardship in stride and turn it into a huge success.
WE need to learn from these people and move ahead in life.

Here I remember a short story that i read a long time ago about a man and a moth.
I would like to share it with you all..

A man found a cocoon of an emperor moth. He took it home so that he could watch the moth come out of the cocoon. On the day a small opening appeared, he sat and watched the moth for several hours as the moth struggled to force the body through that little hole.

Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther. It just seemed to be stuck. Then the man, in his kindness, decided to help the moth, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The moth then emerged easily.

But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the moth because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time. Neither happened! In fact, the little moth spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the moth to get through the tiny opening was the way of forcing fluid from the body of the moth into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon. Freedom and flight would only come after the struggle. By depriving the moth of a struggle, he deprived the moth of health.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If we were to go through our life without any obstacles, we would be crippled.

We would not be as strong as what we could have been. Give every opportunity a chance, leave no room for regrets.

Struggles are here just to teach us how to live life and turn us into better human beings.

Compete Your Ownself !!!

For the betterment of one's life one needs to compete...
This competition shouldn't be between two different people
but between what you were and what you are..

There is no sense in proving your superiority to others..
Because while doing that you are demotivating the other person
And just growing your "self esteem"
We are not here to show anyone what is wrong and what is right..
It could be what we see as right, could be completely wrong.
Its just like the glass filled with water; one sees as half empty and the other as half full. Here both are right, only the perspective of seeing at things is different.

So let the "Ego" go...

To achieve success one needs to
- Be Humble,
- Be Down to earth,
- Be Always ready to learn
- Be Positive
- Be Optimistic
- Be Confident
- Take Opportunities
- Work as a Team
- Work on your Failures
- Last but not the least "SMILE"

Shining the light of our consciousness into the dark can expose negativity and transform it into something positive.

We need to implement things on ourselves.
If we can't change ourselves, how can we bring change into others lives?
Every coin has two sides,
There is always a pro to a con..
Its just what we see and how we see at things,

In fact...
There is nothing noble about being superior to some other person.
True nobility lies in being superior to your own former self!!

Love Friendship and Good Advice!!

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear!

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you!

If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave and impossible to forget!!

You can only go as far as you push!!

Action speaks louder than words!!

The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else!!

Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff!!

Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it!!

A BEST FRIEND is like a four leaf clover, HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE!!

Some people make the world SPECIAL by just being in it!!

BEST FRIENDS are the siblings, GOD forgot to give us!!

When it hurts to look back
And you're scared to look ahead
You can look besides you and your
BEST FRIEND will be there!!

TRUE FRIENDSHIP NEVER ENDS
Friends are FOREVER!!

Good friends are like stars..
You don't always see them
But you know they are always there!!

Don't frown. You never know who is
falling in love with your smile!!

What do you do when the only person
who can make you stop crying
Is the person who made you cry?

Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them!!

Most people walk in and out of your life,
Only friends leave foot prints in your heart.
Everything is OK in the end.
If its not OK then its not the END!!

Precious Moments

* To fall in love.

* To laugh until it hurts your stomach.

* To find mails by the thousands when you return from a vacation.

* To go for a vacation to some pretty place.

* To listen to your favorite song on the radio.

* To go to bed and to listen while it rains outside.

* To leave the shower and find that the towel is warm.

* To clear your last exam.

* To receive a call from someone, you don't see a lot, but you want to.

* A good conversation with a sweet person.

* To find money in a pant that you haven't used since last year .

* To laugh at yourself looking at mirror, making faces.:)))

* Calls at midnight that last for hours.:))

* To laugh without a reason.

* To accidentally hear somebody say something good about you.

* To wake up and realize it is still possible to sleep for a couple of hours.

* To hear a song that makes you remember a special person.

* To be part of a team

21 Things To Remember!!

1. No one can ruin your day without YOUR permission.

2. Most people will be about as happy, as they decide to be.

3. Others can stop you temporarily, but only you can do it permanently.

4. Whatever you are willing to put up with, is exactly what you will have.

5. Success stops when you do.

6. When your ship comes in.... make sure you are willing to unload it.

7. You will never have it all together.

8. Life is a journey...not a destination. Enjoy the trip!

9. The biggest lie on the planet When I get what I want I will be happy.

10. The best way to escape your problem is to solve it.

11. I've learned that ultimately , 'takers' lose and 'givers' win.

12. Life's precious moments don't have value, unless they are shared.

13. If you don't start, it's certain you won't arrive.

14. We often fear the thing we want the most.

15. He or she who laughs...... lasts.

16. Yesterday was the deadline for all complaints.

17. Look for opportunities. ..not guarantees.

18. Life is what's coming....not what was.

19. Success is getting up one more time.

20. Now is the most interesting time of all.

21. When things go wrong.....don' t go with them.

A Journey called Life

Life has no pause button
Dreams have no expiry date
Time takes no holiday
Let us live life
Based on these principles
Think big live simple!

From our birth we start traveling, at first holding hands of our parents. We see and learn what life is from them [our first teachers]. Slowly as we grow up, we start understanding things and take our own decisions. Experiencing each day as it comes with a new teacher.
Trying to reach certain destinations which attract us. Not knowing whether this destination is our destiny.There are dreams to fulfill, new places to see, there is so much to do. At times our dreams get shattered, which hurts us and makes us restless!
Once again new destination calls us..we put ourselves together and move on.. making new friends.. leaving some friends behind as strangers, who depart to their own new destination.

Life can be happier and stress less
If we remember one simple thought
We can't have all that we desire
But God will give us all that we deserve!
Happy Journey!!

Life is a cycle

Not the tring tring one though…

Whatever goes around comes back! It’s just that we don’t know in what manner we will face a situation that we would have created for others.

As the saying goes…

Life is like an echo,

It always comes back to you,

So give it the best and,

The best will come back to you!

Everyone in this world wants the best things in life and for achieving those,

There are manipulations, use of power, etc. Not even thinking for once that what will be the after effect of the deeds done. Will someone else have to face the consequences?

The world is so mean and is just interested in only ‘I’ ‘Me’ & ‘Myself’

The only concern here is, am I benefiting? Will I suffer?

What one can do is think of both the pros and cons of any given situation.

Questions should be changed from ‘I’ to ‘we’

It’s just putting oneself in others shoe and see how much it hurts.

When you cannot bear the pain yourself of a given situation how can anyone else bear the pain…

Right now, if you help someone, someday that courtesy will come back to you…

If you hurt someone, someone else will also hurt you. If you love someone that too will come back to you. May be the form of coming back would be different. But it would surely return!

Dear Friends

Many of you are blogging since a long time..
I have read a few blogs and thought of trying out something at my end too..
I do not have any particular script or a tale or any theme in mind. But just thought of putting up some thoughts here. I hope I can do this better with all your support and love and inputs too… I would appreciate that a lot.
This trip of blogging is a learning experience for me which I’d like to share with all of you.

Thanking you all

Miketa